"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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What are you? Nice guy, jerk, or other?

what category are you in?

  • Nice guy-positive effect on women

    Votes: 0 0.0%

  • Nice guy-negative effect on women

    Votes: 1 10.0%

  • Nice guy-mixed results

    Votes: 1 10.0%

  • Jerk-positive effect on women

    Votes: 0 0.0%

  • jerk-negative effect on women

    Votes: 0 0.0%

  • jerk-mixed results

    Votes: 1 10.0%

  • nice jerk-positive effect on women

    Votes: 3 30.0%

  • nice jerk-negative effect on women

    Votes: 0 0.0%

  • nice jerk-mixed results

    Votes: 2 20.0%

  • I'm not sure

    Votes: 2 20.0%
  • Total voters
    10
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8bit

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We all have views of how to act around women. Many of us believe that the jerks get all the women. Some women don't like jerks however. Wusses are no fun either, so a balance of both may be the best. What category do you think you are in and how has it worked on women?
Personally the nice guy thing never got me anywhere, and when I tried to be a jerk, but that didn't work either. I get a better response when I'm a little of both. I'm interested in hearing other opinions.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Tomatoes

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Im sometimes nice, im sometimes a jerk. Depends what mood im in and who im with. I would say that this works on women. Some like me to be abit of an ******* while others like me to be the caring nice guy. I try to stay in the middle so i dont think im an ass to the world but still get girls.
 
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Juan_Man

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Neither.
 
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8bit

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Hey Juan_Man, I would love to hear a masters point of view.
 
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