"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Originally posted by Tha Realnezz
Yeah he bootlegged himself..

Lol...Thats sad...At one point Nas was trying to bring him out, and then he even dissed Camron for Nas, and now Nas forgets about him and doesnt even try to get a CD out for him, lol....
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Litening to: "Enrique Iglesias - Hero (original version)"
 

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the best heavy metal album

has songs by queen, nickelback, black sabeth, iron maiden, motor head, deep purple and others

1 of the best songso n the cd is war pigs by black sabeth

what is the point of this thread thou? its not like its any use to any one because i dont think any one is going to sit down and look at what music people listen to for an hour, but if thats what you want to do, well have fun anyway.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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DJ Shadow - Giving Up The Ghost
 

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Originally posted by check_mate_kid_uk
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what is the point of this thread thou? its not like its any use to any one because i dont think any one is going to sit down and look at what music people listen to for an hour, but if thats what you want to do, well have fun anyway. [/B]
I do, it helps me pick new music to listen to. Hence, why i bumped it up from the depths......
 

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^Agreed.

I'd upload alot of my songs but I don't have the time right now.

Ludacris-"Large Amounts"-Red-Light District.
 

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yea whats goin down right now I'm checking out that new Cam album. thats cam'ron for those who don't know.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Originally posted by tonystoneNYC
yea whats goin down right now I'm checking out that new Cam album. thats cam'ron for those who don't know.
It was worth waiting for...
 

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Madonna - I'm So Stupid
 

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Westlife_-_I_Wanna_Grow_Old_With_You

Brian Mcfaden - Real To Me

Eminem-Just_Lose_it

simple_plan-id_do_anything
 

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Lumidee - Never leave you.
Damien Rice - Cannonball.
 
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Morbid Angel - Suffocation

not really something for candlelit stufs with panuni tho' :D
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Originally posted by jonny football hero
I do, it helps me pick new music to listen to. Hence, why i bumped it up from the depths......
fair enough
 

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"Simple Plan - Jump"
 

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Crosby Stills Nash and Young- Carry on

Classic rock rocks!
 

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Brian Mcfaden - Real To Me
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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