"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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What are you listening to?

SamePendo

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Diddy featuring Nicole (chwinger?) - come to me

next song:

Diddy- Diddy.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Twelve (Dousk Mix)

Originally done by Tilt

Mixed by DJ Tiesto

In Search of Sunrise 4: Latin America (Disc 1)
 

Bonhomme

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Mission of Burma -- The Obliterati

Old LPs by The Who
 

Rollo Tomassi

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Crash Diet - Straight Outta Hell
Built to Spill - Strange
Endeverafter - Baby Baby Baby
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Shihad - My Mind's Sedate
 

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The Spinto Band - Nice and Nicely Done

A lot of you listen to some terrible music though ;)
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Archaxis

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Albums I'm cycling through right now:

OSI - Free
Nile - Amongst The Catacombs Of Nephren-Ka
Ayreon - Universal Migrator
Dark Tranquillity - Character
Dragonforce - Inhuman Rampage
Tool - 10,000 Days
Lacuna Coil - Karmacode
Stapping Young Lad - The New Black
 

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Im listening to Jim Jones = we fly high. The beat on the song is so addictive. I love this song and it always gets me in the mood for aproaching girls in the club.
 
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ADD-System of a down

well thats over now

Cry of the brave- Dragonforce well this will last a while (almost 9 min long song)
 

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jammin.....

Dj Quik "Let You Have It"
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Dust 2 Dust

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Deicide- Bastard of Christ
Deicide- Bible Basher
Deicide- Death to Jesus
Deicide- The Truth Above
Deicide- Father Baker's...
Deicide- This is Hell Were In
Deicide- Once Upon the Cross
Deicide- Mad at God
Deicide- Blame it on God
Deicide- Serpents of the light
Deicide- Confessional Rape
Deicide- Children of the Underworld
Deicide- Standing in the Flames
Deicide- Trick or Betrayed
Deicide- Sacrificial Suicide
 
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