"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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What are you listening to?

SamePendo

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Diddy featuring Nicole (chwinger?) - come to me

next song:

Diddy- Diddy.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Twelve (Dousk Mix)

Originally done by Tilt

Mixed by DJ Tiesto

In Search of Sunrise 4: Latin America (Disc 1)
 

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Old LPs by The Who
 

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Crash Diet - Straight Outta Hell
Built to Spill - Strange
Endeverafter - Baby Baby Baby
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Shihad - My Mind's Sedate
 

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The Spinto Band - Nice and Nicely Done

A lot of you listen to some terrible music though ;)
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Albums I'm cycling through right now:

OSI - Free
Nile - Amongst The Catacombs Of Nephren-Ka
Ayreon - Universal Migrator
Dark Tranquillity - Character
Dragonforce - Inhuman Rampage
Tool - 10,000 Days
Lacuna Coil - Karmacode
Stapping Young Lad - The New Black
 

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Im listening to Jim Jones = we fly high. The beat on the song is so addictive. I love this song and it always gets me in the mood for aproaching girls in the club.
 
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ADD-System of a down

well thats over now

Cry of the brave- Dragonforce well this will last a while (almost 9 min long song)
 

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jammin.....

Dj Quik "Let You Have It"
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

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Deicide- Bastard of Christ
Deicide- Bible Basher
Deicide- Death to Jesus
Deicide- The Truth Above
Deicide- Father Baker's...
Deicide- This is Hell Were In
Deicide- Once Upon the Cross
Deicide- Mad at God
Deicide- Blame it on God
Deicide- Serpents of the light
Deicide- Confessional Rape
Deicide- Children of the Underworld
Deicide- Standing in the Flames
Deicide- Trick or Betrayed
Deicide- Sacrificial Suicide
 
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