"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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What are you interested in: monogamy/polygamy/both?

What's your 'goal'?

  • Basically, just sleep with as many (good-looking) girls as possible

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • Sleep with many (good-looking) girls while I'm still young and settle later

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • Basically, just trying to find a bombshell g/f with a nice personality.

    Votes: 7 100.0%

  • Total voters
    7

madgame

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Just wondering what everybody's out for..Take the poll plz
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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SELF-MASTERY

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I just want a nice GF.
 

Sophomakhos

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Yes, essentially I just want to find a girl with whom I'm happy. Ultimately, it's the feeling of satisfaction that would do it for me - not an urge to chalk up as many victories as possible.
 

diplomatic_lies

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I have enough issues to worry about with 1 girl, why would I want to shack up with 5 at once?

How did Muslim men with 100 wives even managed a breather?
 

madgame

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Wow right now Im a bit surprised, I really thought most would say 2 and some 1.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Sophomakhos

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In polygamous societies, the men generally get along by never actually having any interaction with their wives until, ahem, bedtime. Otherwise it would be insanely painful...
 
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