"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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What are you interested in: monogamy/polygamy/both?

What's your 'goal'?

  • Basically, just sleep with as many (good-looking) girls as possible

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • Sleep with many (good-looking) girls while I'm still young and settle later

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • Basically, just trying to find a bombshell g/f with a nice personality.

    Votes: 7 100.0%

  • Total voters
    7

madgame

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Just wondering what everybody's out for..Take the poll plz
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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SELF-MASTERY

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I just want a nice GF.
 

Sophomakhos

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Yes, essentially I just want to find a girl with whom I'm happy. Ultimately, it's the feeling of satisfaction that would do it for me - not an urge to chalk up as many victories as possible.
 

diplomatic_lies

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I have enough issues to worry about with 1 girl, why would I want to shack up with 5 at once?

How did Muslim men with 100 wives even managed a breather?
 

madgame

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Wow right now Im a bit surprised, I really thought most would say 2 and some 1.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Sophomakhos

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In polygamous societies, the men generally get along by never actually having any interaction with their wives until, ahem, bedtime. Otherwise it would be insanely painful...
 
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