I always get the 'what are you doing?'. Many days are filled with a consistent schedule of a harsh work day, working out every day to keep that underwear model look, eating right, errands, and some rest. I don't have time to do all the 007 or rock star sh1t these chicks seem to be searching for in their inquiry on top of this all of the time. Do you make things up? Half a$$ a couple interests or hobbies for show? I get this alot on holidays too. Thanks..
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
'What are you doing?'
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
R19 said:
Aside from working on having more free time if it interferes with your social life, you're doing fine.
A MAN works, works hard, takes care of himself, takes care of business and remains the best he can be.
In the end if thats not enough for a woman, you're not going to be enough for her period. And those women are not worth your time.
My expereince has been that women have far more respect for a man with your schedule, than some guy who spends his time screwing off and laying around.
'I'm learning how to make you cvm harder...'
Thanks radiodude. I really don't know what they are looking for because, yep, they all just touched down at the local private jet port from lunch in Paris with an afternoon of shopping on the Champs... Sure, it's an innocent question on the surface, but I always get the sense that it's loaded - at least a mild sh1t test. That is, 'I'm b1tch hot and I know you wanna rail me, but I have to make sure you are worth it so every minute of your day should be filled with something beyond my expectations.'
Thanks radiodude. I really don't know what they are looking for because, yep, they all just touched down at the local private jet port from lunch in Paris with an afternoon of shopping on the Champs... Sure, it's an innocent question on the surface, but I always get the sense that it's loaded - at least a mild sh1t test. That is, 'I'm b1tch hot and I know you wanna rail me, but I have to make sure you are worth it so every minute of your day should be filled with something beyond my expectations.'
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I often get this question with a short term focus... as in what are you doing right now / this weekend / this holiday, etc. That is more my area of interest on how to respond vs. what are you doing with yourself in the big picture / long term. Thanks.
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