"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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What are you doing this weekend?

What are you doing this weekend?

  • Sitting Home Alone (Because I have no friends)

    Votes: 7 25.0%

  • Going out Alone!

    Votes: 1 3.6%

  • Going out with Friends

    Votes: 11 39.3%

  • Going out with HB(s)

    Votes: 9 32.1%
  • Total voters
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TheLoner

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I am in Chicago and live downtown in a nice Condo. I am throwing a party and inviting everyone on here to attend (please bring some HBs if possible). I have invited my entire soccer team to attend(no one responded). I fear that no one will show up to my party.

There will be free booze and gourmet food available, privmsg me for details.
I am also considering giving away a free Nintendo Wii to the winner of the draw.

So, what is everyone's plan for this weekend?

Are you:

1) Sitting at home alone

2) Going out with friends

3) Going out with HB(s)

4) Going out alone
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I got 5 midterms swarming towards me the next two weeks; I'll probably go out to the nearest bar but grades come first!
 
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TheLoner said:
I am in Chicago and live downtown in a nice Condo. I am throwing a party and inviting everyone on here to attend (please bring some HBs if possible). I have invited my entire soccer team to attend(no one responded). I fear that no one will show up to my party.

There will be free booze and gourmet food available, privmsg me for details.
I am also considering giving away a free Nintendo Wii to the winner of the draw.

So, what is everyone's plan for this weekend?

Are you:

1) Sitting at home alone

2) Going out with friends

3) Going out with HB(s)

4) Going out alone
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I'm going to play soccer with my friends then out to bang as many HB11.5's as I can after I score the game winning goal.

(Ok. I'm a terrible liar. I'll be sitting at home alone.)
 
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i'm going to go to the gym and ask all the guys to "hang out" with me, then i'm going to ask a few strangers on the bus "to be my friends"....
i also have candies in the back of my black van and like to give them away to children during the weekend.... :whistle: :rolleyes:
 
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Purefilth

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i shall Re - read the DJ bible, then run down the street completely naked except for a gorrilla mask. If I see any HB6-10, I will stop and fapfapfap In front of them so they can see I am attracted to them.

If I see any Warpigs (0 - 5) then I will fling poo at them.

If the police try to catch me they will have to send helicopters to the top of the highest building in town, since I will be up there beating my chest and pounding my meat at them.:box:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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The plan untill now is going to club with a friend tomorrow night, try to get some girl for the night or to go out again on saturday, but I guess that if I bang some decent girl of friday I wont feel the need to go out on sat.

Saturday no plan till now, I may ask some of the girls I know to go out but the flaking potential is too high to rely on them so there is the change of clubbing alone (unless I get some girl on friday).
 
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ScottMustaine said:
I feel like he is a troll. Constantly pointing out how he has no friends.
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No way... That possibility never occurred to me! Trolls exist on this site? That's a ridiculous supposition, to be sure.

... Okay, I'll cut the sarcasm.

Regardless, the weekend is actually a legitimate question if you ignore the whole intro of 'having a party have no friends I'm lame'.

I'll be working hard, hopefully going on a hike with a girl I know, and otherwise sarging the heck out of the local place for bars/etc. Conference, homework, and other work though, so it's going to be hard to fit everything in.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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sageproduct- you are more than welcome to come.

Anyone who is in Chicago is invited and welcome to come.

You do not need to bring HB's, but if you want to, you are more than welcome to.
 
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YES I'M SO PUMPED!!!!!!!!!!!! I'm coming to your party man!!!

WHO ELSE IS COMING?!?! ALL WEEKEND LONG SS DJ FEST IN CHICAGO

C'mon Ninja, Purefilth...TheLoner will pay for your airline tix and I'll cover your lodging ;) you know you want to!
Mike32ct take a break from dancing for once! Come out here, maybe you can teach us what you've learned! Woohoo!

I'll bring some Mondos and tell my mom to make pizza rolls!
 
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Let's see:

Friday - Going on a 4 to 5 mile run in a nearby state park with an ex-mil friend of mine. We're both putting in apps for the local PD's and will be doing the Physical Agility Test soon.

Friday Night - Getting drinks with a HB8 at my favorite pub. Girl was referred to me by aforementioned friend.

Saturday - Chest & Tri's at the gym, then run errands. Make a good lunch, one that takes time, like smoked salmon. Might take my dirtbike forks to the motorcycle shop to be re-valved.

Saturday Night - Take the ball-n-chain out, probably go-kart racing or to a movie I want to see.

Sunday - Family stuff / Prep for the workweek.

OP, I would go to your party just to see what you look like.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Interesting Poll Results:

Approximately half of the people who voted are staying home alone because they have no friends or going out alone because they have no friends.

The other half of the people actually have friends.

So 50% of all people are loners like myself?
 
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TheLoner said:
Interesting Poll Results:

Approximately half of the people who voted are staying home alone because they have no friends or going out alone because they have no friends.

The other half of the people actually have friends.

So 50% of all people are loners like myself?
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I don't remember the last time I was out with a friend. I always roll solo. I don't even think about it anymore.
 
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Mike32ct said:
I don't remember the last time I was out with a friend. I always roll solo. I don't even think about it anymore.
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Don't people think you are weird and ask you "who are you here with"

"Oh myself, I like to roll solo"

"Why is that"

"Because I am a Loner"

"Wow, that is so cool"

not
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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