"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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What are You Doing in Your Free Time?

mickdollaz

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I've been enjoying the extra daylight hours and getting exercise early evenings at my leisure.

I'm self employed so I tend to indulge in f'ng around online at my leisure since I control my own schedule, but as a result, tend to work a little bit during evenings as well more than occasionally.

With the total absence of sports up until the last few days, I've had plenty of time to do some in-depth research and discovered, perhaps not shockingly, that this "virus" is a full-on hoax as of course everything and anything associated with it is a hoax as well. I say not surprisingly since pretty much everything we're told is a lie.

I'm very, very pissed at the lack of a nightlife around here, and it doesn't look like that situation is changing any time soon, not locally anyway.

What does concern me is how glum everyone looks when outside. They are clearly defeated, their eyes blank, their souls destroyed. I make eye contact with and greet just about everyone I encounter if they are able, and it is very, very rare that anyone will return my gaze. Many are scared, most are demoralized, and few if any, have the look of someone at ease.

Meanwhile, the forum continues to fill up with questions about cold approaching, it's just so bizarre.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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corrector

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That's too bad. I haven't noticed anyone glum or see what you are talking about. I just think everything is just great and don't see the world the way you are. I'm watching Indiana Jones movies right now before they are removed from Netflix by the end of the week and doing some work around the home.
 

Xenom0rph

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I'm working from home. It saves me about 3 hours of my day (1 hr to shower + brush teeth + dress + eat, 2 hrs round trip commute)......

In my free time I work out and clean up around the house.

My current project is to expand my home gym by building DIY equipment. I'm currently working on building a curved treadmill. Next would be to make my own cement weights and build a power rack and a leg press. I already have a bench and a pull up bar so I need sometime to address the legs.....

I'm also on a horror movie binge....
 

backseatjuan

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I do fishing my man. It's also a form of socializing because beaches are full of people day and night, at night mostly women. Then I also do programming, I've been writing this piece of software for the past 2 years, it predicts soccer matches. All for me, entirely private build, have no pans on releasing it to the public.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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SW15

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I'm very, very pissed at the lack of a nightlife around here, and it doesn't look like that situation is changing any time soon, not locally anyway.

What does concern me is how glum everyone looks when outside. They are clearly defeated, their eyes blank, their souls destroyed. I make eye contact with and greet just about everyone I encounter if they are able, and it is very, very rare that anyone will return my gaze. Many are scared, most are demoralized, and few if any, have the look of someone at ease.

Meanwhile, the forum continues to fill up with questions about cold approaching, it's just so bizarre.
The reason you are seeing stuff about cold approaching on this forum is because the app swiping environment is so bad. People who are wise realize the ratios are worse than city populations at large on the apps and interactions primarily behind electronic screens are a complete waste of fuccking time.

Any way of meeting women in person is better than app swiping. People ask about cold approaching because the askers have weak social circles (becoming more common) and need to find a way to get laid fast. Social circle development in non-pandemic times is long and plodding and may not even be effective at a certain point. A lot of variables need to fall into place for social circle to work. The rise in app swiping is an inverse correlation with the decline of social circles.
 

DietrichVan

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I do fishing my man. It's also a form of socializing because beaches are full of people day and night, at night mostly women. Then I also do programming, I've been writing this piece of software for the past 2 years, it predicts soccer matches. All for me, entirely private build, have no pans on releasing it to the public.
How effective?
 

redskinsfan92

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Fix my cars, run my errands, and make more money
 
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