"what are you doin tonight?"

[tryin 2 play]

Whatsup everyone,

Been diggin this girl from my workplace. Known for about 3-4 weeks. She doesn't flirt with me very much and I do not with her too much because the opportunity isn't there because of work. Although once in awhile I give her some C&F and she laughs. When I do see her though she is asking a good amount of questions about me(nothing TOO personal though).
Every single weekend she asks what I am doing for the weekend, and genuinely seems interested. Could she be hinting that she wants to get together? Or maybe just making convo. She also sometimes says that her nights aren't very exciting, and I always make mine seem really exciting. Do you think she is hinting? I am thinking that next time we talk about the wekeend that I will says omething like "hey we should do something sometime." hopefully she says sure and I eill say k give me your number or whatever. Should I just ask or am I just being a ***** for waiting this long?(3-4 weeks) Feel free to tell me if I am haha.

P.S. This is notthe same girl from my previous thread(plane ride). Thats a whole other story lol Thanks n sorry for the long ass post.

 

[arutha]

Could be either, it is probably just conversation. My response to that kind of stuff, when I am interested, is:

'Why? What did you want to do?'

Makes it immediately look like they are there asking you out not the other way around, and it seems like they don't expect it.. Or haven't with me so far. Kinda suprises them I think. Its worked so far for me.

 

[tryin 2 play]

i'll keep that in mind. Any other thoughts people???

 

[wowiehowie]

I think she's diggin' ya. Ball' in your court, ask her out next time she initiates.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Originally posted by wowiehowie
I think she's diggin' ya. Ball' in your court, ask her out next time she initiates.

Why wait??!! Just tell her that you are going to do [fill in the blank] and that she's have a good time if she came along.

 

[Aaron B]

You have obviously never dated a co-worker. Go for it, its a good thing because after this you will never again dip your pen in the company ink.

 

[tryin 2 play]

Well one of my co workers there was a fvck buddy for a few months. After it was done it was no big deal. Maybe this would be different if wedated though i dont know. It's not a job I care about I can get a part time job anywhere if things got that bad I guess.

 

[Aaron B]

In that case, go for it. What do you have to lose?

 

[TesuqueRed]

dating at work is fine and you think everything is ok

until it goes sour, and then it's pure hell. after that, you are like twice burned and will won't make that mistake again

anyway, guy, invite her along to something you're doing on a weekday night first, not a weekend. see how things roll out