"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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"What are we?"

TheNewStyle123

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Hey guys.

I have 2 plates I am becoming close with, but I am still not interested in a LTR at this time. What is everyone's default answer to this inevitable question if you don't want a LTR but you want to keep seeing that girl?

I know it needs to be done covertly and indirectly.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Black Widow Void

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The long version of "it's me not you"

"I really enjoy your company. I'm just not in a place right now .... where I can offer anything full time. I wish that I was, but I guess that it'll take some time."
 

TheNewStyle123

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Her: "What are we?"

You: "I think it's dangerous to try and define this. We've gotta let this go where it wants to go."

If she keeps pressing, say:

"You know, a few months from now, maybe things will be different, but for right now, I'm enjoying being single. But, I also enjoy spending time with you."

Then, wrap your arm around her thigh, pull her on top of you, and kiss her.

That'll shut her up for another week or so.
Both of those are great! Thanks man
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Lookatu

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"I just got out of a marriage/relationship and I don't want to jump into anything serious too soon as I'm still recovering."

If they really like you, they'll understand and stick around. It also gives them a challenge to try to change your thinking.
 
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