Josh Davidson
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Especially the free ones.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
What are the main dating sites people use these days?
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
FlexpertHamilton
Master Don Juan
I don't know, I only use Hinge, seems much better than the others i've tried. Just avoid Tinder, lowest quality women on there, and highest male-female ratio.
Josh Davidson
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Ok. I'll try Hinge.
EyeBRollin
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For free apps, Hinge is the best. OkCupid, bumble, and coffee meets bagel are ok. Tinder and plenty of fish are trash.
BackInTheGame78
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Hinge and Bumble are good...POF isn't bad but it depends on where you are as to how effective it will be...
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Josh Davidson
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Thanks for the replies everyone! I'll check out the sites you all mentioned.
Hamurabimbi
Master Don Juan
Tinder done me right.