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What Are the Dangers of a High Notch Count for Men?

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High notch count = increased risks of STDs, paternity lawsuits, death by jealous partners (hers), becoming emotionally desensitized, and developing a "devil may care attitude."
yeah I just love how these guys have over 100 lays with no STD history, no kids, no property damage, no casualties, and of course they don’t pay for a single date, they all come to his place, and of course all 8s-10s looks scale.
 

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Other than dealing with a large number of crazies, nothing.

I can't see the day i'd tire of screwing new attractive women
 

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If men want to play house and follow the beaten path (as is your biology is screaming for), men need to geo max abroad to cultures that support trad lifestyle.
I'm proud of myself for not playing house and following the beaten path, though there are consequences for the choice. I have experienced some social estrangement as a result of getting into my late 30s and not playing house.

In any event, it's a **** load of work to go abroad or make this a lifestyle.
In the late 2000s, I was looking into relocating to South America because I thought there was a chance I would be better positioned for a trad type relationship. I was in my mid-20s at the time, which was the perfect age to do a relocation to a more traditional culture. The 2008 recession hit as I was graduating from grad school and there was no way I was going to get international work authorization as a new grad in the worst global economic conditions since the end of World War II. I ended up shuttering my South American relocation ideas and eventually relocated within the United States. I kept spinning plates. I pillaged what I could.
 

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yeah I just love how these guys have over 100 lays with no STD history, no kids, no property damage, no casualties, and of course they don’t pay for a single date, they all come to his place, and of course all 8s-10s looks scale.
i dunno at my age it isn’t really that much of an accomplishment- I’ve been sexually active for 30 years even at the low of 6 new lays a year that’s 180 lays. Not sure why that’s so hard to believe. It’s not some huge accomplishment. No one said 8-10’s - I’ve had my share of 8’s and a 9 here and there but anyone that’s been having sex for a while has some lays that were subpar so what? Why do you care?
 
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i dunno at my age it isn’t really that much of an accomplishment- I’ve been sexually active for 30 years even at the low of 6 new lays a year that’s 180 lays. Not sure why that’s so hard to believe. It’s not some huge accomplishment. No one said 8-10’s - I’ve had my share of 8’s and a 9 here and there but anyone that’s been having sex for a while has some lays that were subpar so what? Why do you care?
It’s not hard to have a high lay count but your average guy on the internet is seriously capping
 

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yeah I just love how these guys have over 100 lays with no STD history, no kids, no property damage, no casualties, and of course they don’t pay for a single date, they all come to his place, and of course all 8s-10s looks scale.
I think that 1 in 10 women ( especially if you bang a lot of them in a short time ) will have some sort of an STD

so a guy who is at 100 lays should have got at least of couple of STDs during his journey
 

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Having a high notch count has made me less tolerant and it's a good thing and a bad thing. I'm not afraid to let any girl know I've had enough and will kick her to the curb. The last few women have accused me of being hard to please and my expectations are too high that it makes them uncomfortable.

Every girl I was with has taught me that they all can be replaced easily. There is nothing special about any of them.

Hopefully I don't sound jaded, because I'm not. Ive enjoyed every woman I've been with and have no I'll will towards any of them. The past is the past and I try and remember the best times.

The perfect woman doesn't exist, but it hasn't stopped me from searching.
 
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One look at an incel forum says otherwise, those people are definitely not happy.
They are "involuntary celibate though". They WANT to get laid and their life revolves around it. They're the same thing as a guy who loves getting pu$$y and has a high notch count but without the notches. They just can't get what they desire so they grow resentful of everything around them.
 

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What Are the Dangers of a High Notch Count for Men?
Your nutz will end up being dryer than the Sahara desert and shrink to peanut sizes and suddenly you have a lot of friend requests from squirrels instead of women?

 
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I think that 1 in 10 women ( especially if you bang a lot of them in a short time ) will have some sort of an STD

so a guy who is at 100 lays should have got at least of couple of STDs during his journey
especially if he’s banging girls that come over onfirst date with sex lol
 

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especially if he’s banging girls that come over onfirst date with sex lol
you should not be biased on if she does it from the first date or not , but I would say that most guys here focus on the low hanging fruits , so I would guess that most of this girls have quite a long history
 
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you should not be biased on if she does it from the first date or not , but I would say that most guys here focus on the low hanging fruits , so I would guess that most of this girls have quite a long history
okay let’s say she does it for Chad/Tyrone and not beta bucks? Guess what? There’s plenty of Chad/Tyrones roaming around the premises and they have high lay counts exposing her to more people. As a result, her being picky makes her even more of a risk lol.
 

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In the Christian faith, there's a belief in a thing called ' Soul ties'.

A soul tie is the mental, spiritual, physical side effects you can get from doing sacred acts with someone like having sex with them. If you sleep with lots of dumb wh0res and slvts, don't be surprise if you're suddenly having strange unclean thoughts, feeling depress, suicidal, jaded etc.

A soul tie is basically the act of transmitting someone's characteristics, behaviors, attitudes and tendencies and flaws through a sacred act. This is why it is very wise to check who you're sleeping with.

Dude, It is why celibates and Men practicing semen retention are onto something and have this childlike happiness about them. There living on the spiritual plane, not the physical.
Therefore, you can't get a soul-tie by looking at OF/porn/fapping, etc... Although, I'm beginning to think OF is a bit deceptive in the sense that while it's presenting itself as a type of "girl-next-door" voyeuristic porn, you may have a very weak soul-tie with the content creator (ie the fact you are interacting with her and paying a subscription or ordering a la carte from her, able to make comments). I felt this sometimes in the past where I felt really bad, lonely, and irritable unless I renewed the subscription to one or two specific OF girls I was interacting with, which I found was weird.
 

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In the Christian faith, there's a belief in a thing called ' Soul ties'.

A soul tie is the mental, spiritual, physical side effects you can get from doing sacred acts with someone like having sex with them. If you sleep with lots of dumb wh0res and slvts, don't be surprise if you're suddenly having strange unclean thoughts, feeling depress, suicidal, jaded etc.

A soul tie is basically the act of transmitting someone's characteristics, behaviors, attitudes and tendencies and flaws through a sacred act. This is why it is very wise to check who you're sleeping with.

Dude, It is why celibates and Men practicing semen retention are onto something and have this childlike happiness about them. There living on the spiritual plane, not the physical.
Yup Demonic attacks come with this--I have dealt with this
STD's
Jadedness
 

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This thread is inspired by the two threads recently that were asking members how many sexual partners they've had, and is directed at those men who have a high notch count...

It's a common belief that, for a man, the more partners, the better.

But is this really true?

Certainly those of you with high notch counts have, in addition to copiously satisfying your lusts, also experienced mental turmoil and a lot of stress as a result of it, and have maybe even experienced health issues, no?

This aspect is never discussed, and I wonder if those of you with experience would have the humility and courage to elucidate on the dangers -- or cons -- that go along with sexing a lot of women.

What undesirable circumstances and situations did this lifestyle bring about for you?

Please share your thoughts and experiences.
The quality is far more important than quantity, in my opinion.

It's like saying "I've got more friends than you. How many friends have you got"?

Having a very high notch count can sometimes be a by product of not being able to form lasting relationships.

Just ask Rooshv or Tom Torero.
 

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Bad for the ego, it makes you think that your better then the average women.
Also it exposes you to std.
 
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