"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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What are the benefits of Calisthenics?

Messarger

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For those who are not familiar with the term, Calisthenics refer to body weight exercises like push ups, sit ups, dips etc.

Having spend months on the H&F forum, i know that these exercises are nothing compared to Squats, Deadlifts, Bench when one is trying to bulk. However, should they eventually have a place in our routines (post bulk)? I dunno, maybe when we're trying to cut can we use them to maintain our strength? What is the low-down on Calisthenics and what are the benefits of it?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Throttle

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a place in your routine...not if you mean in your lifting routine.

they're an alternative, for when you can't/won't put the time & effort into being at the gym. and potentially just as effective as a poorly thought-out or executed gym routine, especially if you're not matching your gym work with proper diet.
 

Being_the_Don

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Messarger said:
For those who are not familiar with the term, Calisthenics refer to body weight exercises like push ups, sit ups, dips etc.

Having spend months on the H&F forum, i know that these exercises are nothing compared to Squats, Deadlifts, Bench when one is trying to bulk. However, should they eventually have a place in our routines (post bulk)? I dunno, maybe when we're trying to cut can we use them to maintain our strength? What is the low-down on Calisthenics and what are the benefits of it?

I'm not interested in bulking but I AM interested in strength so I perform calisthenics all the time right alongside benching, barbell t-bar row, dLs, etc. Don't underestimate the importance of calisthenics.
 
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