"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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What are the 2 principles you need to internalise to become a natural?

RSDCharlie

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1. In any social interaction, there is always be one person that will be reacting more than the other person, both internally and externally.

2. In a social interaction, you should always be self amusing, be authentic and offer value.


Lets say you meet a really attractive girl and you got her number. Its so tempting to rate and objectify that girl, brag about her, post about her on the internet etc. But by doing so, you didnt realise it but that person became a part of your ego structure. So, whenever you call her, your behaviour will come out as needy and someone whose taking value. This was because you put her on a pedestal by giving her a higher rating.

When you come from a place of abundance, not just in terms of girls but in life, your social interactions will improve automatically.

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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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1. They're more afraid of you than you are of them.
2. Their opinion of you doesn't matter.
2nd principle is good, but i dont believe in the 1st principle. Fear should not be a part of social interaction
 

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Value yourself above all others and never be afraid to walk away from a situation you don't like.
 
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