Josh Davidson
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turning a first date with a woman I meet from OLD into a hook-up within 1 to 3 dates?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
What are some tips for...
- Thread starter Josh Davidson
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Atom Smasher
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It can’t be done.
SackOfFlesh
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I beg to differ....
Modern Man Advice
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By hook-up, do you mean just a one-night stand or like a booty-call?
Either way, anything is possible with the right people skills. Unfortunately for you, it is subjective. It depends from woman to woman. That is your job as a man, read the moment, her vibe, and body, and guide the interaction to where she genuinely wants it too.
My biggest tip is to be direct and assertive. If that is what you want, don't be shy to disclose that. I've been asked the typical question, "so what are you looking for?" And I tell them, nothing serious nor long-term. If they want that, I am the wrong man for them (unless that is what I want). I tell them I am a pretty sexual/sensual person and I want somebody with the same sexual appetite as me. Everyone enjoys sex, bottom line.
If that is them, great let's continue talking. If it's not for them, I wish them good luck.
Modern Man Advice
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Glassguy
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Simple. Go out, get drinks and escalate. When the deed is done, let her do the pursuing.
Atom Smasher
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No, it’s been proven with science. It cannot be done. Anyone who tries risks tearing the space/time continuum.