Josh Davidson
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turning a first date with a woman I meet from OLD into a hook-up within 1 to 3 dates?
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
What are some tips for...
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It can’t be done.
SackOfFlesh
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I beg to differ....
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By hook-up, do you mean just a one-night stand or like a booty-call?
Either way, anything is possible with the right people skills. Unfortunately for you, it is subjective. It depends from woman to woman. That is your job as a man, read the moment, her vibe, and body, and guide the interaction to where she genuinely wants it too.
My biggest tip is to be direct and assertive. If that is what you want, don't be shy to disclose that. I've been asked the typical question, "so what are you looking for?" And I tell them, nothing serious nor long-term. If they want that, I am the wrong man for them (unless that is what I want). I tell them I am a pretty sexual/sensual person and I want somebody with the same sexual appetite as me. Everyone enjoys sex, bottom line.
If that is them, great let's continue talking. If it's not for them, I wish them good luck.
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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
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Simple. Go out, get drinks and escalate. When the deed is done, let her do the pursuing.
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No, it’s been proven with science. It cannot be done. Anyone who tries risks tearing the space/time continuum.