"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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What are some things that break your self confidence?

JoesphBrown

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I honestly don't think anything hurts my self confidence long term. I know what a catch I am and I know what a catch I will be once I get all this stuff sorted out.

The way I see it, bad stuff happens to everyone, but you can't let that affect how you view yourself. I know what I am capable of, no bad experience is going to ruin that confidence.

However my overall confidence needs some work. Part of me knows I can do anything I want to, but deep down a little part of me knows I do have limits, but I intend to change that and keep doing hard things until I fully believe that I can do anything I put my mind too
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Serenity

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The one person who can truly wreck my confidence is myself. Seeing myself fail achieveing what I set out to achieve, I fall in the dumps before I spike up with something burning inside me.
 

skinnyguy

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RangerMIke said:
Failure wreaks confidence.

The best way to fight this is to NOT involve yourself with women that have low interest in you.

Learn how to identify the signs that she just isn't into you, take that at face value, and move on. She's not texting you back, well don't get pi$$ed off, just move on, delete the number and find a women that wants to rock your world.

If your confidence is shaken it's because you are letting your ego get in the way of having a good time. Would you rather get ignored and dissed by a 9 or 10, or would you rather get a BJ from a 7-8? Just stop chasing women that aren't interested. First.... understand it's a waste of time, second the MORE you obsess over a women like this the more INVESTED you are and the harder it is to walk away. It becomes a self fulfilling prophecy.

Don't waste time with women that have little interest in you.

Love this post.

I just wish I knew this when I was 22.
 

Eljuego

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when the rohypnol wears off......:cuss:



















Kidding!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!









It never wears off :up:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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