"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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What are some things that break your self confidence?

JoesphBrown

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I honestly don't think anything hurts my self confidence long term. I know what a catch I am and I know what a catch I will be once I get all this stuff sorted out.

The way I see it, bad stuff happens to everyone, but you can't let that affect how you view yourself. I know what I am capable of, no bad experience is going to ruin that confidence.

However my overall confidence needs some work. Part of me knows I can do anything I want to, but deep down a little part of me knows I do have limits, but I intend to change that and keep doing hard things until I fully believe that I can do anything I put my mind too
 

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You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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The one person who can truly wreck my confidence is myself. Seeing myself fail achieveing what I set out to achieve, I fall in the dumps before I spike up with something burning inside me.
 

skinnyguy

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RangerMIke said:
Failure wreaks confidence.

The best way to fight this is to NOT involve yourself with women that have low interest in you.

Learn how to identify the signs that she just isn't into you, take that at face value, and move on. She's not texting you back, well don't get pi$$ed off, just move on, delete the number and find a women that wants to rock your world.

If your confidence is shaken it's because you are letting your ego get in the way of having a good time. Would you rather get ignored and dissed by a 9 or 10, or would you rather get a BJ from a 7-8? Just stop chasing women that aren't interested. First.... understand it's a waste of time, second the MORE you obsess over a women like this the more INVESTED you are and the harder it is to walk away. It becomes a self fulfilling prophecy.

Don't waste time with women that have little interest in you.

Love this post.

I just wish I knew this when I was 22.
 

Eljuego

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when the rohypnol wears off......:cuss:



















Kidding!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!









It never wears off :up:
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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