"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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What Are Some Signs of Narcissistic Behavior?

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It's been a while since I've seen signs of narcissistic behavior in person, but when I lived in DC and Miami I used to see it daily nonstop.

What are some signs of a narcissist that you've noticed?

One sign I can clearly remember off the top of my head is extremely selfish and inconsiderate of others.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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* Constantly trying to provoke arguments for attention

* Can't control their emotions

* Uses emotional randsom to get their way

* Wastes peoples' time by making/agreeing to plans and cancelling last minute

* Wants everyone to listen to their opinion but disregards the opinions of others
 
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It ALWAYS starts with “love bombing” in the beginning. You’ll know what it is if the girl seems like she’s falling for you faster than any other girl ever has and constantly tells you how awesome and wonderful you are.
 
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Extreme attractiveness, extreme confidence, extreme self centeredness, or she gets tons of head inflating success/tons of attention.

If you see any of those, watch out for the rest of them.
 
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* Hypocritical

* Doesnt hold themselves accountable for their actions and will try to place the blame on others or claim victimhood ( this is a leftist tactic, notice how everyone in the democratic party is a narcissist)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Just by looking at their instagram profiles, if they have one, should show all the signs you need in regards to identifying narcissistic behavior.

This has become very common with young women today, as there life literally revolves around the validation that they can get through other people.
 
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Xenom0rph said:
* Constantly trying to provoke arguments for attention

* Can't control their emotions

* Uses emotional randsom to get their way

* Wastes peoples' time by making/agreeing to plans and cancelling last minute

* Wants everyone to listen to their opinion but disregards the opinions of others
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Lack of empathy.
Inability to bond with with others.
Extremely self centered.
Inability to accept blame or fault. It is always someone elses fault.
Delusion of grandeour. Believe they are better than everyone.
High belief that others are put in their path to control and use.
Highly manipulative.
Highly impulsive.
Inability to control compulsive behaviour
Highly abusive both mentally and emotionally
 
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