"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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What Are Some Signs of Narcissistic Behavior?

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It's been a while since I've seen signs of narcissistic behavior in person, but when I lived in DC and Miami I used to see it daily nonstop.

What are some signs of a narcissist that you've noticed?

One sign I can clearly remember off the top of my head is extremely selfish and inconsiderate of others.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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* Constantly trying to provoke arguments for attention

* Can't control their emotions

* Uses emotional randsom to get their way

* Wastes peoples' time by making/agreeing to plans and cancelling last minute

* Wants everyone to listen to their opinion but disregards the opinions of others
 
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It ALWAYS starts with “love bombing” in the beginning. You’ll know what it is if the girl seems like she’s falling for you faster than any other girl ever has and constantly tells you how awesome and wonderful you are.
 
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Extreme attractiveness, extreme confidence, extreme self centeredness, or she gets tons of head inflating success/tons of attention.

If you see any of those, watch out for the rest of them.
 
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* Hypocritical

* Doesnt hold themselves accountable for their actions and will try to place the blame on others or claim victimhood ( this is a leftist tactic, notice how everyone in the democratic party is a narcissist)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Just by looking at their instagram profiles, if they have one, should show all the signs you need in regards to identifying narcissistic behavior.

This has become very common with young women today, as there life literally revolves around the validation that they can get through other people.
 
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Xenom0rph said:
* Constantly trying to provoke arguments for attention

* Can't control their emotions

* Uses emotional randsom to get their way

* Wastes peoples' time by making/agreeing to plans and cancelling last minute

* Wants everyone to listen to their opinion but disregards the opinions of others
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Lack of empathy.
Inability to bond with with others.
Extremely self centered.
Inability to accept blame or fault. It is always someone elses fault.
Delusion of grandeour. Believe they are better than everyone.
High belief that others are put in their path to control and use.
Highly manipulative.
Highly impulsive.
Inability to control compulsive behaviour
Highly abusive both mentally and emotionally
 
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