"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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what are some quick ways to raise a womans interest in you?

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I mean you didnt notice it dropping so fast happend unexpectedly before and after she came back from vacation i mean theres gotta be a way?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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2) ignoring her
3) when she finds out you are happy without her
 
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thelonewolflegend said:
well if she isn't hitting you up ignoring don't seem to help?
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Wolfie, I am no expert on this but I'll ramble for a minute.

Her hampster wants you too and thinks you should be chasing her, complimenting her, calling her, texting her. The hamster eats attention like we eat food. When you don't feed it, she'll wonder why not, and she might seek you out to try and understand what's wrong with either you or her that you're not feeding her attention craving.

So the advice isn't to ignore her communication, it's to ignore her silence. If she does reach out to you, awesome! Game it up. If not, after an appropriate period of time (2 weeks?), contact her to ask her out only. If she says no, forget her.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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