"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

Read more...

what are some quick ways to raise a womans interest in you?

Joined
Jan 5, 2014
Messages
876
Reaction score
11
I mean you didnt notice it dropping so fast happend unexpectedly before and after she came back from vacation i mean theres gotta be a way?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

Rocky_Wayne

Don Juan
Joined
May 4, 2014
Messages
37
Reaction score
1
2) ignoring her
3) when she finds out you are happy without her
 

MOTU

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 29, 2014
Messages
638
Reaction score
72
Location
Houston, TX
thelonewolflegend said:
well if she isn't hitting you up ignoring don't seem to help?
Wolfie, I am no expert on this but I'll ramble for a minute.

Her hampster wants you too and thinks you should be chasing her, complimenting her, calling her, texting her. The hamster eats attention like we eat food. When you don't feed it, she'll wonder why not, and she might seek you out to try and understand what's wrong with either you or her that you're not feeding her attention craving.

So the advice isn't to ignore her communication, it's to ignore her silence. If she does reach out to you, awesome! Game it up. If not, after an appropriate period of time (2 weeks?), contact her to ask her out only. If she says no, forget her.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

Top