"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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what are some quick ways to raise a womans interest in you?

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I mean you didnt notice it dropping so fast happend unexpectedly before and after she came back from vacation i mean theres gotta be a way?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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2) ignoring her
3) when she finds out you are happy without her
 

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thelonewolflegend said:
well if she isn't hitting you up ignoring don't seem to help?
Wolfie, I am no expert on this but I'll ramble for a minute.

Her hampster wants you too and thinks you should be chasing her, complimenting her, calling her, texting her. The hamster eats attention like we eat food. When you don't feed it, she'll wonder why not, and she might seek you out to try and understand what's wrong with either you or her that you're not feeding her attention craving.

So the advice isn't to ignore her communication, it's to ignore her silence. If she does reach out to you, awesome! Game it up. If not, after an appropriate period of time (2 weeks?), contact her to ask her out only. If she says no, forget her.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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