"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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What are some places for a high schooler to Sarge?

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Thread Title explains it all. What are the best places for a high school kid who is a RAFC to get in some well needed practice.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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mall, beach, any place where you don't really know anyone and there is no pressure on the outcome.
 

SucceedSocially

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-Malls
-Stores downtown
-All-ages bars
-Concerts
-Parties
-Theme parks that teenagers go to during the day in the summer
-Bookstores
-Outdoor festivals

Still, when you're younger you gotta accept you don't have it as good as people who can legally get into bars.
 

SucceedSocially

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They're bars where on certain nights they'll let underage people in. Usually it's when a band is playing. At other times they'll have a 'teen night' or something. At other times they'll let all ages in, but the under-age kids get an X drawn on their wrist, or they don't get a wristband that lets them buy booze. I honestly don't know if they're everywhere though.

Also, raves and other parties could be considered all-ages events as well.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I got to find me some of those underage bars. I'll probably have to go to LA and look for some.
 
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