"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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What are some places for a high schooler to Sarge?

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Thread Title explains it all. What are the best places for a high school kid who is a RAFC to get in some well needed practice.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Touchout

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mall, beach, any place where you don't really know anyone and there is no pressure on the outcome.
 

SucceedSocially

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-Malls
-Stores downtown
-All-ages bars
-Concerts
-Parties
-Theme parks that teenagers go to during the day in the summer
-Bookstores
-Outdoor festivals

Still, when you're younger you gotta accept you don't have it as good as people who can legally get into bars.
 

SucceedSocially

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They're bars where on certain nights they'll let underage people in. Usually it's when a band is playing. At other times they'll have a 'teen night' or something. At other times they'll let all ages in, but the under-age kids get an X drawn on their wrist, or they don't get a wristband that lets them buy booze. I honestly don't know if they're everywhere though.

Also, raves and other parties could be considered all-ages events as well.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I got to find me some of those underage bars. I'll probably have to go to LA and look for some.
 
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