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What are some kino moves for at the movies?

Zero Hero

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I was out with this girl last night. First we got some coffee at a bookstore then I asked if she wanted to see a movie and she did so we went and did that. I was thinking I could do some good kino at the movie, but I couldn't come up with anything. I massaged her hand a bit, but it's kinda weird. It's not as easy as you think with the cupholder divider between you.

Also on another note...I think women in their late 20s are the worst to date. I was supposed to call this girl on Saturday, but I didn't feel like it so I e-mailed her today to see if she wanted to hang out tonight and she says: "I had down that we were going to watch football on Saturday afternoon. I didn't hear from you. I'll let you know when I have time available again."
 

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When you are at the movie, when you make comments to her, speak softly, be funny, and sometimes when you are bringing your head to or away from her ear let your nose brush her cheek softly. If she is into you, it will drive her wild.
 

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hrm am 21, went to the movies with a 26yr old. My tips is start off the night with close proximity and kino. When i first saw her, i went in for a tight snuggly hug. The cup holders were a little barrier but always try to keep your thighs, body language leaning towards her and touching her... put your hands on her thighs and massage them, hold her hands. lean or put your head on your shoulder etc.
 

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carve a hole inthe bottom a popcorn bucket and put your penis inside. Offer her some popcorn
 

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Espi said:
LOL...

OK, here are some "movie moves."

--cusp your hand along the small of her back when you and she enter through a doorway; repeat this when you escort her through the aisle in route to your seats. repeat this after the movie when you escort her out of the aisle in route to exiting the theatre.

BTW, you can use this type kino in virtually any place on any date.
Would you care to explain what you are talking about?

What's cusp? and what's the "small of her back"? Maybe it's some texas talking or something . . .
 

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SamePendo said:
Would you care to explain what you are talking about?

What's cusp? and what's the "small of her back"? Maybe it's some texas talking or something . . .
The small of a girl's back is that little area on her back above her butt.

He means like put your hand there and kinda guide her.
 

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Skel said:
carve a hole inthe bottom a popcorn bucket and put your penis inside. Offer her some popcorn
I actually knew a guy who did this. I wasn't there thank god, but I heard plenty about it. haha!
 

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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

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I like to do the hand hold in a crowd thing. If the theatre is crowded or as you leave and everybody is pushing and shoving to file out of the theatre, reach behind you and offer your hand and then lead her out as if you're just trying to keep from getting separated.

Also recommended for:
* theme parks
* clubs
* airports
* etc.
haha
 

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ValleyDJing said:
I like to do the hand hold in a crowd thing. If the theatre is crowded or as you leave and everybody is pushing and shoving to file out of the theatre, reach behind you and offer your hand and then lead her out as if you're just trying to keep from getting separated.

Also recommended for:
* theme parks
* clubs
* airports
* etc.
haha
Airports? You take girls to the airport?

Sorry, I just thought that was funny.

As for movie kino... it's the easiest place in the world to kino outside of a DVD at your place. The girl's sitting there right beside you...even I can throw in a gentle nudge or two to get things started...
 

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I just realized my problem is I'm not good at kino in general. ****, I have a problem giving kino on first dates cause you never know how it's going, but I know I should just go ahead and do it.
 

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My horrible luck, the last time i tried Kino at the movie theatre it backfired. I had tried to put my arm around her. She stayed like that for like 10 mins, and then got out of it and pretended to be gettin gum out of her bag, i guess not to hurt my feelings. I found out later on that she did that cuz she has metal screws in her left shoulder and she was in pain! Her bf drived off a cliff with her in the car yrs ago, and she broke 3 ribs and her shoulder. And now has rods and screws in there suppsoedly. She let me feel it, it was freakin weird.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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