"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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What are some kino moves for at the movies?

Zero Hero

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I was out with this girl last night. First we got some coffee at a bookstore then I asked if she wanted to see a movie and she did so we went and did that. I was thinking I could do some good kino at the movie, but I couldn't come up with anything. I massaged her hand a bit, but it's kinda weird. It's not as easy as you think with the cupholder divider between you.

Also on another note...I think women in their late 20s are the worst to date. I was supposed to call this girl on Saturday, but I didn't feel like it so I e-mailed her today to see if she wanted to hang out tonight and she says: "I had down that we were going to watch football on Saturday afternoon. I didn't hear from you. I'll let you know when I have time available again."
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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When you are at the movie, when you make comments to her, speak softly, be funny, and sometimes when you are bringing your head to or away from her ear let your nose brush her cheek softly. If she is into you, it will drive her wild.
 

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hrm am 21, went to the movies with a 26yr old. My tips is start off the night with close proximity and kino. When i first saw her, i went in for a tight snuggly hug. The cup holders were a little barrier but always try to keep your thighs, body language leaning towards her and touching her... put your hands on her thighs and massage them, hold her hands. lean or put your head on your shoulder etc.
 

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carve a hole inthe bottom a popcorn bucket and put your penis inside. Offer her some popcorn
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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SamePendo

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Espi said:
LOL...

OK, here are some "movie moves."

--cusp your hand along the small of her back when you and she enter through a doorway; repeat this when you escort her through the aisle in route to your seats. repeat this after the movie when you escort her out of the aisle in route to exiting the theatre.

BTW, you can use this type kino in virtually any place on any date.
Would you care to explain what you are talking about?

What's cusp? and what's the "small of her back"? Maybe it's some texas talking or something . . .
 

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SamePendo said:
Would you care to explain what you are talking about?

What's cusp? and what's the "small of her back"? Maybe it's some texas talking or something . . .
The small of a girl's back is that little area on her back above her butt.

He means like put your hand there and kinda guide her.
 

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Skel said:
carve a hole inthe bottom a popcorn bucket and put your penis inside. Offer her some popcorn
I actually knew a guy who did this. I wasn't there thank god, but I heard plenty about it. haha!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I like to do the hand hold in a crowd thing. If the theatre is crowded or as you leave and everybody is pushing and shoving to file out of the theatre, reach behind you and offer your hand and then lead her out as if you're just trying to keep from getting separated.

Also recommended for:
* theme parks
* clubs
* airports
* etc.
haha
 

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ValleyDJing said:
I like to do the hand hold in a crowd thing. If the theatre is crowded or as you leave and everybody is pushing and shoving to file out of the theatre, reach behind you and offer your hand and then lead her out as if you're just trying to keep from getting separated.

Also recommended for:
* theme parks
* clubs
* airports
* etc.
haha
Airports? You take girls to the airport?

Sorry, I just thought that was funny.

As for movie kino... it's the easiest place in the world to kino outside of a DVD at your place. The girl's sitting there right beside you...even I can throw in a gentle nudge or two to get things started...
 

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I just realized my problem is I'm not good at kino in general. ****, I have a problem giving kino on first dates cause you never know how it's going, but I know I should just go ahead and do it.
 

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My horrible luck, the last time i tried Kino at the movie theatre it backfired. I had tried to put my arm around her. She stayed like that for like 10 mins, and then got out of it and pretended to be gettin gum out of her bag, i guess not to hurt my feelings. I found out later on that she did that cuz she has metal screws in her left shoulder and she was in pain! Her bf drived off a cliff with her in the car yrs ago, and she broke 3 ribs and her shoulder. And now has rods and screws in there suppsoedly. She let me feel it, it was freakin weird.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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