"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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what are some good places to meet up?

proteinshake

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girl wants my number so she can meet up with me and get something of hers from me... she gave me this thing just so she could do this btw. ok so i need to do my part and tell her ' im gona be at bla bla tonight and you can meet me there if u want" after that i got my game set and match lol. so im counting on u pimps and playas to think of something cool im gonna be doing tonight where this girl can meet me. bc im definatly not gonna tell her to meet me at my house bc im recovering from the night before lol. thanks
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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asdfghjkl

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Hmm, i don't really understand...did you have a party or something last night at your house? If you didn't, your house is definitely the place to meet her. Think about it, it basically comes down to do you want to hook up with her or not...

If your dead set on not meeting her at your house though, just meet her at a local coffee shop or a Starbucks or something.
 

Mind_Body_Soul

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Dude - just go wherever you normally would. doesn't have to be a "cool place". Or just tell the girl to come get it at your house - who cares what she thinks? If she really needs to pick it up she'll show. Then when she gets there open the door very slightly, peek out suspiciously, hand her the object real quickly, and then shut the door in her face. Wait like 2 seconds and then open it up, grab her, and be like quick get in. She'll be thinking "WTF?!?!" in a good way.
 

Lust

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Beach.

Yeah, i have to admit I'm a beach-a-holic. If you have read any of the FRs in my Approach Challenge, you'd know i am.

It's fun, relaxing, doesn't cost a dime, plus, you get to see her in a bikini and it's an easy way to transition into a makeout session. Take her back to your place (Or hers) and go for the close.
 
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