"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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what are some good places to meet up?

proteinshake

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girl wants my number so she can meet up with me and get something of hers from me... she gave me this thing just so she could do this btw. ok so i need to do my part and tell her ' im gona be at bla bla tonight and you can meet me there if u want" after that i got my game set and match lol. so im counting on u pimps and playas to think of something cool im gonna be doing tonight where this girl can meet me. bc im definatly not gonna tell her to meet me at my house bc im recovering from the night before lol. thanks
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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asdfghjkl

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Hmm, i don't really understand...did you have a party or something last night at your house? If you didn't, your house is definitely the place to meet her. Think about it, it basically comes down to do you want to hook up with her or not...

If your dead set on not meeting her at your house though, just meet her at a local coffee shop or a Starbucks or something.
 

Mind_Body_Soul

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Dude - just go wherever you normally would. doesn't have to be a "cool place". Or just tell the girl to come get it at your house - who cares what she thinks? If she really needs to pick it up she'll show. Then when she gets there open the door very slightly, peek out suspiciously, hand her the object real quickly, and then shut the door in her face. Wait like 2 seconds and then open it up, grab her, and be like quick get in. She'll be thinking "WTF?!?!" in a good way.
 

Lust

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Beach.

Yeah, i have to admit I'm a beach-a-holic. If you have read any of the FRs in my Approach Challenge, you'd know i am.

It's fun, relaxing, doesn't cost a dime, plus, you get to see her in a bikini and it's an easy way to transition into a makeout session. Take her back to your place (Or hers) and go for the close.
 
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