LoneSilver
Master Don Juan
I was wondering what are some good arm measurements for a man 6-3 210 as far as bicep sizes and also chest size?
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blinkwatt said:@ Lonesilver,
Measurements mean nothing,trust me. You can be fat and have 18" arms for all the wrong reasons. Let ask you this; I'm 5 7" and have 15" arms flexed now my bodyfat is somewhere between 9-14%(You can see mild seperation between my muscles). I know someone who is my height but has 15" at 15-20% bf area(No muscle seperation rather big bumps),who's would you have? Bodyfat means more then measurements. The more cut you are the bigger you look.
blinkwatt said:
my forearms are HUGE , they are my best featureSkilla_Staz said:Your upper and lower bicep? Mexi...you do know that your bicep is split into two muscles that are NEXT to eachother, not above and below...
Do you mean your forearm?
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mexican_player2 said:im like 5-2 and my flex bicep is 14.5 inch i have a big upper bicep and nice triceps but my lower bicep seems pretty small and that makes my arm look small i hate it
LoneSilver said:At your height Mex your arms properly look massive cause most people don't see themselves as others see them but I believe reverse curls will hit the lower bicep if I am not mistaken and you don't need a lot of weight either.
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Celadus said:He might mean the bicep tendon when he says "lower bicep". I'd kill to have a shorter tendon, I have an inch or two gap between the end of my bicep and my forearm. I'm underweight so hopefully getting to normal will make it better.