"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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What are some cheap places to meet women for 30+ man

ubercat

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Sorry to revive an old thread. But I'm a bit confused by the reviews of meetup. I go to quite a few and I've talked to plenty of professional level people. And you can see who's going - so if its a **** forest go to another event. I would agree that you meet more ppl there with lower level social skills. I'd suggest the sports ones - weird ppl don't generally seem to play sports. And some I can't bring myself to go to must have insanely good ratios - e.g. the romantic film fans group.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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skinnyguy

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Strip club
Women's shelter
Day care
The mall
Yoga class


Yeah meetup sucks. I did find a social circle off it but for dating it sucks.!
 
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