"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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What are some Bible Articles regarding cold approaching?

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starting from 2-3 days from now, i'm gonna try to ask girls out wherever i see them. without going out of my way, i wanna ask some of the cute girls i see out

now i've been reading a lot on confidence and attraction and what not, but nothing relaly about cold approaching

and in a week from now i'm oging up to vegas for 2 nights. do things change for the casino or club environment?

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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anyone?
any posts that'll help plz...
i just can't seem to convince myself to do it
i'm good at making small talk, but i can't bring myself to ask for the number or the date
 
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I dunno. Your username "evolvingnerd" do you look like a dork? IE glasses, real fat/thin, big nose etc you know the types. If you look like a nerd be prepared to be shot down, since these CA's seem pretty much based on physical attraction and I don't care what others say.

I say here in oz most girls won't give you much of a chance doing CA's unless you're relatively good looking.
 
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Whatever you do, don't say "Hi", then they will know you are trying to hit on them!!!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Ya, instead...punch them in the face...they wont have any idea.
 
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Senor Fingers' Weapons of Mass Seduction is a must read.

Also Walden's boot camp journal, jwhite's daily approaches journal and Guitar Whizz's shame attacks thread will be pretty helpful.

But BigWillyStyle is right....CAs in Australia are pretty damn hard unless the chick is in high school or is desperate.
 
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yeah it's true
i've seen so many guys, even good looking ones get shot down
the chick will play along for a while, but then she'll end up saying something along the lines of "look, i dunno you so i think i'll go now"

how about making some good chick friends and then using them to find dates then?
 
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