"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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What are some Bible Articles regarding cold approaching?

evolvingnerd

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starting from 2-3 days from now, i'm gonna try to ask girls out wherever i see them. without going out of my way, i wanna ask some of the cute girls i see out

now i've been reading a lot on confidence and attraction and what not, but nothing relaly about cold approaching

and in a week from now i'm oging up to vegas for 2 nights. do things change for the casino or club environment?

cheers
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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anyone?
any posts that'll help plz...
i just can't seem to convince myself to do it
i'm good at making small talk, but i can't bring myself to ask for the number or the date
 

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I dunno. Your username "evolvingnerd" do you look like a dork? IE glasses, real fat/thin, big nose etc you know the types. If you look like a nerd be prepared to be shot down, since these CA's seem pretty much based on physical attraction and I don't care what others say.

I say here in oz most girls won't give you much of a chance doing CA's unless you're relatively good looking.
 

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Whatever you do, don't say "Hi", then they will know you are trying to hit on them!!!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Ya, instead...punch them in the face...they wont have any idea.
 

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Senor Fingers' Weapons of Mass Seduction is a must read.

Also Walden's boot camp journal, jwhite's daily approaches journal and Guitar Whizz's shame attacks thread will be pretty helpful.

But BigWillyStyle is right....CAs in Australia are pretty damn hard unless the chick is in high school or is desperate.
 

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yeah it's true
i've seen so many guys, even good looking ones get shot down
the chick will play along for a while, but then she'll end up saying something along the lines of "look, i dunno you so i think i'll go now"

how about making some good chick friends and then using them to find dates then?
 
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