"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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what are deep topics to ask a girl on a date?

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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salinechow

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Ask about things she is passionate about. If she talks about work or school, steer it back towards arts or animals, or travel or hobbies. Have a good follow up question regarding whatever she says. Practice on other people before dates.
 
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I went on date with a girl recently who said she likes art wnd goes museums i told her we go sometime even tho im not huge fan is it beta doin what $he want?
 

sylvester the cat

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She says she likes going to the museum? You take her to a strip joint.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Thorninmyside

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Be someone else, preferably who isn't retarded and doesn't need to stick their fingers in a power socket every day to remember that it will hurt. FFS!

This clown does not deserve posting privileges, mods.
 
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