"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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what are deep topics to ask a girl on a date?

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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salinechow

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Ask about things she is passionate about. If she talks about work or school, steer it back towards arts or animals, or travel or hobbies. Have a good follow up question regarding whatever she says. Practice on other people before dates.
 
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I went on date with a girl recently who said she likes art wnd goes museums i told her we go sometime even tho im not huge fan is it beta doin what $he want?
 

sylvester the cat

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She says she likes going to the museum? You take her to a strip joint.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Thorninmyside

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Be someone else, preferably who isn't retarded and doesn't need to stick their fingers in a power socket every day to remember that it will hurt. FFS!

This clown does not deserve posting privileges, mods.
 
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