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So she remembers u to go on next date and ur not just regular guy and keeps it goin?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
what are best ways invoke a womens emotions on dates?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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Watch this:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=065LXG8KypI
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=065LXG8KypI
thelonewolflegend
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Ok i get simple gist of it say something u like about it then tease her but how the hell do i mentally put myself like this im seriously generic with women i really have 0 of these skills i just say whats up and try to hangout and im only thing when i go out with her i just like to hangout do whatever like i do with guy friends i dont got any women friends help please i need to internalize and understand this
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- Keep the date fun/funny as much as possible
- Don't talk all serious but do plant the seed to let her know that you are a man who works and takes care of your children (if you have any) and business over everything else
- Don't talk about any potential future with each other
- Don't talk about the problems in your life. If she does hers, just listen but offer little or no advice
- Neg/bust/tease on her a little bit
- Neg/bust on yourself a little bit too but don't overdo it or it can backfire big time. Shows confidence.
- Make her wonder more about you, be a man of many mysteries (ex: I confuse so many people by dressing like the country redneck that I am but I listen to rap music and talk radio. WTF, right? )
- Let her know you are sexual but don't push sex at the very, very beginning. (take her to an adult bookstore, that's my favorite way to do this)
- Don't talk all serious but do plant the seed to let her know that you are a man who works and takes care of your children (if you have any) and business over everything else
- Don't talk about any potential future with each other
- Don't talk about the problems in your life. If she does hers, just listen but offer little or no advice
- Neg/bust/tease on her a little bit
- Neg/bust on yourself a little bit too but don't overdo it or it can backfire big time. Shows confidence.
- Make her wonder more about you, be a man of many mysteries (ex: I confuse so many people by dressing like the country redneck that I am but I listen to rap music and talk radio. WTF, right? )
- Let her know you are sexual but don't push sex at the very, very beginning. (take her to an adult bookstore, that's my favorite way to do this)
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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On 2nd time i saw a girl i took her porn shop she was freaked out that and said was weird that i knew where everything was and i didnt i was just pointing things out. Explain
devilkingx2
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that was... kinda dumb.thelonewolflegend said:
sorta made you look like a weirdo pervert, but I like the idea weed out the prudes by showing you're sexual, maybe that was a little strong though.
Bible_Belt
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So how are you supposed to be sexual then? I still have no idea how to flirt naturally? Basically i have to feel un natural lie and make up stories and stuff? How do u plant seed? How do you neg yourself enough or neg her? Help how do i know what ill b doing? If someone is complete newb how they can truly learn these things??? Any place
Bible_Belt
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You have to try, inevitably fail, and then learn from those failures so you get better. Everyone goes through the same thing.
You shouldn't have to lie or do anything that feels unnatural. Hell, just be nice. I know that is a radical approach, but if you use a lot of kino and touch her all you can, and then she how responds, it will work. Nice guys finish last not because being nice doesn't work, but because they won't close the deal. Be nice. Then touch her and see what happens. If she shrinks away, she's not that into you. If she likes it, then she is, so escalate. That's Game 101. You have to learn to crawl before you can learn to walk. After you get that down, then start thinking about more advanced ideas like negging and being sexual. You have to work on your fundamental skills first.
You shouldn't have to lie or do anything that feels unnatural. Hell, just be nice. I know that is a radical approach, but if you use a lot of kino and touch her all you can, and then she how responds, it will work. Nice guys finish last not because being nice doesn't work, but because they won't close the deal. Be nice. Then touch her and see what happens. If she shrinks away, she's not that into you. If she likes it, then she is, so escalate. That's Game 101. You have to learn to crawl before you can learn to walk. After you get that down, then start thinking about more advanced ideas like negging and being sexual. You have to work on your fundamental skills first.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Acting like a MAN is the best way. Just don't be a beta white knight and she will naturally feel emotions around you.
The alpha mindset alone creates female intrigue. You're lack of need for her approval and validation frees you to actually be "interesting" and different from your typical thirsty PUA or agreeable walking on eggshells beta loser.
Men using "game" might as well be in handcuffs. They are constantly adapting their behavior to get the right reaction from the woman instead of just not giving a sh!t.
Always go for the ass grab on the first date. It will let you know if you're dealing with a feminine woman with high interest who respects men or a feminist c*nt who wants to be "in charge" and run the show.
The alpha mindset alone creates female intrigue. You're lack of need for her approval and validation frees you to actually be "interesting" and different from your typical thirsty PUA or agreeable walking on eggshells beta loser.
Men using "game" might as well be in handcuffs. They are constantly adapting their behavior to get the right reaction from the woman instead of just not giving a sh!t.
Always go for the ass grab on the first date. It will let you know if you're dealing with a feminine woman with high interest who respects men or a feminist c*nt who wants to be "in charge" and run the show.
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Oki appreciate the advice but im seriously a beginner and have no fking clue how to do those things on dates. Can you please elaborate or give me more indepth how i can do these things on my own style and things like that?
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Oki appreciate the advice but im seriously a beginner and have no fking clue how to do those things on dates. Can you please elaborate or give me more indepth how i can do these things on my own style and things like that?
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U dont understand i got the advice but only basic understanding i need to know how to ACTUALLY DO IY AND INTERNALIZE IT SO I DO IT ALL THE TIME
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Firestar786
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LOL.Poon King said:
There is no better answer than this lol.
Purely being alpha will illicit the response you want.
RangerMIke
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Be funny get her laughing. Build report and speak of things you do and like from an emotional perspective. Don't just say "I like football." Relate a story from an emotional perspective that demonstrates why you like it. A story from your childhood is always good. I usually tell the story of when my dad took me to a football game... my earliest memory of my dad and I doing anything together...didn't know what was going on but remembered the team he was rooting for won and some other female fan grabbed him from behind and kissed him... when I got home I told my mother the it was fun and daddy was kissing girls.
It's true... funny... And gets her thinking about kissing. See how this works?
It's true... funny... And gets her thinking about kissing. See how this works?
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Unfortunately i dont have any stories like that only like how i went wrestling as a kid and saw shawn michaels or playing little league baseball wait i just remembered a story. When i was kid i was at my uncle's and me and my niece were playing in backyard and i didnt see her and swung the bat and smacked her upside the head and she had to go hospital is that a good story to tell? If so how do i go into that?
RangerMIke
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LOL!!! Your posts crack me up... you are either the most pathetic dude in the history of humanity, or a funny sarcastic guy. If you are the latter you will do just fine with women. If you are the former, then I suggest you join a monestry and get some happiness working is a garden or building furniture.thelonewolflegend said: