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So she remembers u to go on next date and ur not just regular guy and keeps it goin?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
what are best ways invoke a womens emotions on dates?
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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Watch this:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=065LXG8KypI
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=065LXG8KypI
thelonewolflegend
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Ok i get simple gist of it say something u like about it then tease her but how the hell do i mentally put myself like this im seriously generic with women i really have 0 of these skills i just say whats up and try to hangout and im only thing when i go out with her i just like to hangout do whatever like i do with guy friends i dont got any women friends help please i need to internalize and understand this
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- Keep the date fun/funny as much as possible
- Don't talk all serious but do plant the seed to let her know that you are a man who works and takes care of your children (if you have any) and business over everything else
- Don't talk about any potential future with each other
- Don't talk about the problems in your life. If she does hers, just listen but offer little or no advice
- Neg/bust/tease on her a little bit
- Neg/bust on yourself a little bit too but don't overdo it or it can backfire big time. Shows confidence.
- Make her wonder more about you, be a man of many mysteries (ex: I confuse so many people by dressing like the country redneck that I am but I listen to rap music and talk radio. WTF, right? )
- Let her know you are sexual but don't push sex at the very, very beginning. (take her to an adult bookstore, that's my favorite way to do this)
- Don't talk all serious but do plant the seed to let her know that you are a man who works and takes care of your children (if you have any) and business over everything else
- Don't talk about any potential future with each other
- Don't talk about the problems in your life. If she does hers, just listen but offer little or no advice
- Neg/bust/tease on her a little bit
- Neg/bust on yourself a little bit too but don't overdo it or it can backfire big time. Shows confidence.
- Make her wonder more about you, be a man of many mysteries (ex: I confuse so many people by dressing like the country redneck that I am but I listen to rap music and talk radio. WTF, right? )
- Let her know you are sexual but don't push sex at the very, very beginning. (take her to an adult bookstore, that's my favorite way to do this)
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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On 2nd time i saw a girl i took her porn shop she was freaked out that and said was weird that i knew where everything was and i didnt i was just pointing things out. Explain
devilkingx2
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that was... kinda dumb.thelonewolflegend said:
sorta made you look like a weirdo pervert, but I like the idea weed out the prudes by showing you're sexual, maybe that was a little strong though.
Bible_Belt
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So how are you supposed to be sexual then? I still have no idea how to flirt naturally? Basically i have to feel un natural lie and make up stories and stuff? How do u plant seed? How do you neg yourself enough or neg her? Help how do i know what ill b doing? If someone is complete newb how they can truly learn these things??? Any place
Bible_Belt
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You have to try, inevitably fail, and then learn from those failures so you get better. Everyone goes through the same thing.
You shouldn't have to lie or do anything that feels unnatural. Hell, just be nice. I know that is a radical approach, but if you use a lot of kino and touch her all you can, and then she how responds, it will work. Nice guys finish last not because being nice doesn't work, but because they won't close the deal. Be nice. Then touch her and see what happens. If she shrinks away, she's not that into you. If she likes it, then she is, so escalate. That's Game 101. You have to learn to crawl before you can learn to walk. After you get that down, then start thinking about more advanced ideas like negging and being sexual. You have to work on your fundamental skills first.
You shouldn't have to lie or do anything that feels unnatural. Hell, just be nice. I know that is a radical approach, but if you use a lot of kino and touch her all you can, and then she how responds, it will work. Nice guys finish last not because being nice doesn't work, but because they won't close the deal. Be nice. Then touch her and see what happens. If she shrinks away, she's not that into you. If she likes it, then she is, so escalate. That's Game 101. You have to learn to crawl before you can learn to walk. After you get that down, then start thinking about more advanced ideas like negging and being sexual. You have to work on your fundamental skills first.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Acting like a MAN is the best way. Just don't be a beta white knight and she will naturally feel emotions around you.
The alpha mindset alone creates female intrigue. You're lack of need for her approval and validation frees you to actually be "interesting" and different from your typical thirsty PUA or agreeable walking on eggshells beta loser.
Men using "game" might as well be in handcuffs. They are constantly adapting their behavior to get the right reaction from the woman instead of just not giving a sh!t.
Always go for the ass grab on the first date. It will let you know if you're dealing with a feminine woman with high interest who respects men or a feminist c*nt who wants to be "in charge" and run the show.
The alpha mindset alone creates female intrigue. You're lack of need for her approval and validation frees you to actually be "interesting" and different from your typical thirsty PUA or agreeable walking on eggshells beta loser.
Men using "game" might as well be in handcuffs. They are constantly adapting their behavior to get the right reaction from the woman instead of just not giving a sh!t.
Always go for the ass grab on the first date. It will let you know if you're dealing with a feminine woman with high interest who respects men or a feminist c*nt who wants to be "in charge" and run the show.
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Oki appreciate the advice but im seriously a beginner and have no fking clue how to do those things on dates. Can you please elaborate or give me more indepth how i can do these things on my own style and things like that?
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Oki appreciate the advice but im seriously a beginner and have no fking clue how to do those things on dates. Can you please elaborate or give me more indepth how i can do these things on my own style and things like that?
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U dont understand i got the advice but only basic understanding i need to know how to ACTUALLY DO IY AND INTERNALIZE IT SO I DO IT ALL THE TIME
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Firestar786
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LOL.Poon King said:
There is no better answer than this lol.
Purely being alpha will illicit the response you want.
RangerMIke
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Be funny get her laughing. Build report and speak of things you do and like from an emotional perspective. Don't just say "I like football." Relate a story from an emotional perspective that demonstrates why you like it. A story from your childhood is always good. I usually tell the story of when my dad took me to a football game... my earliest memory of my dad and I doing anything together...didn't know what was going on but remembered the team he was rooting for won and some other female fan grabbed him from behind and kissed him... when I got home I told my mother the it was fun and daddy was kissing girls.
It's true... funny... And gets her thinking about kissing. See how this works?
It's true... funny... And gets her thinking about kissing. See how this works?
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Unfortunately i dont have any stories like that only like how i went wrestling as a kid and saw shawn michaels or playing little league baseball wait i just remembered a story. When i was kid i was at my uncle's and me and my niece were playing in backyard and i didnt see her and swung the bat and smacked her upside the head and she had to go hospital is that a good story to tell? If so how do i go into that?
RangerMIke
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LOL!!! Your posts crack me up... you are either the most pathetic dude in the history of humanity, or a funny sarcastic guy. If you are the latter you will do just fine with women. If you are the former, then I suggest you join a monestry and get some happiness working is a garden or building furniture.thelonewolflegend said: