"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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what are a good pair of shoes?

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what do you wear?

around college, what shoes do women dig?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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From what I've heard, it's not terribly important what shoes you wear, but it's a big turnoff to chicks when your shoes are not clean, and/or polished.
 

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ok, i've been wearing "skater" shoes, what do you think of those?
 

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black polished leather sporty dress shoes... don't know the name.

It sucks how important shoes are. When I ditched my favorite old white sneaks one girl at my dorm who was crushing on me said: "Thank god, you finally got rid of those white sneakers!" Like it was weighing on her conscience the whole time.

One more reason to treat chicks with a little bit of sadism. Seriously. I'm suffering from leather shoe slavery over here. They're gonna feel my pent up rage from not wearing sneakers when I tap them.
 

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PrinceBeavis said:
What shoes do YOU dig?

This is the only question which needs to be asked.

If YOU like something it doesn't make a good-goddamn if she likes it or not. She'll feed off of your enthusiasm.

I'm a HUGE Mark Nason guy. A bit pricey but something's are worth the extra money.

Three things I never skimp on:

Shoes, cigars and my watch.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Wouldn't you like to know? ;)
Karma, what watch do you have? Any recommendations? I'm thinking about spending abit of cash on a nice new watch, and since I'm learning a variety of martial arts, if anybody tries to take it, I'll mess 'em up :cool:
 

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Check out KinoWear, the site specializes in fashion for PUA's/DJ's. Link in my sig.
 

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SilverSonnet said:
Karma, what watch do you have? Any recommendations? I'm thinking about spending abit of cash on a nice new watch, and since I'm learning a variety of martial arts, if anybody tries to take it, I'll mess 'em up :cool:
I have a Fossil which is my everyday and I have a Tag Heuer which I wear for for special occasions.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Wouldn't you like to know? ;)
Because having good taste in clothes and the like, is vital. It expresses you as an individual and your character.Also, you do not want to be that guy who has no clue of fashion and looks like a freak.. :)

Peace, Young Ben ;)
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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