"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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What approach ?

mindbogler

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Here to learn, what would a real Don Juan do ?

A friend and me go in a bar , I order some beers and notice the hottie behind the bar totaly checking me out , just like the last 2 times i was there.. , we go and sit at a table in the back.

After a few mins the hottie comes up to us and asks me ..hey why don't you come sit at the bar, you are actually the only customer i like.

So what do you do ??

A: Immediatly stand up , follow her and sit at the bar
B :Finish your conversation with your friend and sit at the bar
C: Stay where you are.


Anyway i did : B

(Might be good to know that a week before this chick tried to eavesdrop on a conversation and i tested her by speaking a bit louder and said to my friend "you need the right girl for that" and that made it so obvious that really made her look and turn etc, she had to explain that she was eavesdropping on our conversation etc..)

So what would the real DJ do ??

Excuse me for my English it's not my native language..

Thanks !
 
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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oneboy21

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You did the right thing.
Crack her up and tease her little bit and ask for her number and get out from there
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

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