"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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mindbogler

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Here to learn, what would a real Don Juan do ?

A friend and me go in a bar , I order some beers and notice the hottie behind the bar totaly checking me out , just like the last 2 times i was there.. , we go and sit at a table in the back.

After a few mins the hottie comes up to us and asks me ..hey why don't you come sit at the bar, you are actually the only customer i like.

So what do you do ??

A: Immediatly stand up , follow her and sit at the bar
B :Finish your conversation with your friend and sit at the bar
C: Stay where you are.


Anyway i did : B

(Might be good to know that a week before this chick tried to eavesdrop on a conversation and i tested her by speaking a bit louder and said to my friend "you need the right girl for that" and that made it so obvious that really made her look and turn etc, she had to explain that she was eavesdropping on our conversation etc..)

So what would the real DJ do ??

Excuse me for my English it's not my native language..

Thanks !
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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You did the right thing.
Crack her up and tease her little bit and ask for her number and get out from there
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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