"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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mindbogler

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Here to learn, what would a real Don Juan do ?

A friend and me go in a bar , I order some beers and notice the hottie behind the bar totaly checking me out , just like the last 2 times i was there.. , we go and sit at a table in the back.

After a few mins the hottie comes up to us and asks me ..hey why don't you come sit at the bar, you are actually the only customer i like.

So what do you do ??

A: Immediatly stand up , follow her and sit at the bar
B :Finish your conversation with your friend and sit at the bar
C: Stay where you are.


Anyway i did : B

(Might be good to know that a week before this chick tried to eavesdrop on a conversation and i tested her by speaking a bit louder and said to my friend "you need the right girl for that" and that made it so obvious that really made her look and turn etc, she had to explain that she was eavesdropping on our conversation etc..)

So what would the real DJ do ??

Excuse me for my English it's not my native language..

Thanks !
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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You did the right thing.
Crack her up and tease her little bit and ask for her number and get out from there
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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