Serenity
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Not necessarily, but even if you have no intention of long term relationship you would want to enjoy their company, wouldn't you? Obviously you wouldn't need that much compatibility for education, religion and many other things if you don't intend on long term. There are many examples of men and women dating, they have a very good time together at first, but some aspects become unbearable over time.I came on this forum first on May 2017 and just listened to audio book on YouTube back in June/July. Book of Pook suggests to be picky and selective with high standards and NOT hungry/on the prowl. Does he mean only going for chicks who we could see ourselves long term with(whole bunch of compatible traits with us like religion, vibe, looks, education,etc)and not just a good looking chick that only socially vibes with us and nothing else?
There's a big difference between seeing a girl once, a couple times a week, every day and living with her. Each step requires more things about her to be right for you to enjoy being with her. Still, even at ONS you wouldn't really fvck any girl would you? You'd probably want her to look good, act feminine, be as sane as possible and obviously not object to any aspects of you.
Let's take a look at "only socially vibes", that's not as simple as you make it sound. There are probably particular behaviors you won't tolerate and others that you very much appreciate. Some things may matter a lot to you while other things don't matter much at all. Some of her weaknesses may be irrelevant or insignificant for the short term, but a huge problem for the long term.
Bottom line, the direct answer to your question is no. Which standards are relevant depends on the type of relationship you desire and how much each aspect matters to you within that context.