"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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What an interesting turn of events

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My high school has open campus lunch and so we can go where ever the hell we want and the past 3 weeks I've stayed at school doing work and getting good grades. Well I took a break today and decided to roll with a friend and his girl. Well, 2 big blunts, and 4 joints awaited me accompanied by the good old Grey Goose vodka...Well in 30 minutes me and my friends managed to decimate all that weed and I downed about 8-9 shots in about 10 minutes. I started feeling way too good on the way back to school and so I tell my friend to drop me off at the university transit stop. I decided that I should go sarging. Well I get on the bus and sit down and reek really bad of weed smoke and alcohol so I just sit and holy crap, I just observed life in general as if I was watching it from a TV.. People in general and their insecurites, and their need to be accepted, and what not.. I observed body language and suprisingly every cute girl that got on the bus sat near me. I was in this observation mode and so I relaxed and just analyzed these women and their signals. Man, they were all interested. Flicking hair, every time I would do something or breath deeply they'd look at me or something..

well, I was really in a philosophical, reflective deep state of mind and so I totally concentrated on human dynamics and that sh*t is a really crazy topic to touch, its kinda scary but at the same time you feel like you have something above the rest of the humans around you because you obviously are seeing something that not many see.

Anyways, last I remembered I struck a conversation with a HB7 redhead cutie and I started talking to her about which bars were good in town and then next thing I know its 9 o clock at night and I'm in bed with a piece of paper that says Olivia and a cell phone number and there's also a banana republic sweater on my floor..hopefully she comes back to get it because banana republic is too expensive to just forget one of its items somewhere...
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Originally posted by Dimebag_Darrell
Flicking hair, every time I would do something or breath deeply they'd look at me or something..
The reason they were looking at you was probably because you weren't wearing any pants, and you didn't realize it because you were high.
 

Citre

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You should really consider wearing pants next time.
 

KaminoSS

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i dont like stalkers
lol always the new guys who post the flames......
 

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a) less than two months member doesn't give you the right to talk about other members as new members.

b) it's a joke from them, I found it funny :D

They were probably scared of your drunk weeded-out ass man :p
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hahahaha...not that i condone the use of drugs, but that's AWESOME man!

just don't get yourself too effed up!

-Damian
 
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