"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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What an interesting turn of events

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My high school has open campus lunch and so we can go where ever the hell we want and the past 3 weeks I've stayed at school doing work and getting good grades. Well I took a break today and decided to roll with a friend and his girl. Well, 2 big blunts, and 4 joints awaited me accompanied by the good old Grey Goose vodka...Well in 30 minutes me and my friends managed to decimate all that weed and I downed about 8-9 shots in about 10 minutes. I started feeling way too good on the way back to school and so I tell my friend to drop me off at the university transit stop. I decided that I should go sarging. Well I get on the bus and sit down and reek really bad of weed smoke and alcohol so I just sit and holy crap, I just observed life in general as if I was watching it from a TV.. People in general and their insecurites, and their need to be accepted, and what not.. I observed body language and suprisingly every cute girl that got on the bus sat near me. I was in this observation mode and so I relaxed and just analyzed these women and their signals. Man, they were all interested. Flicking hair, every time I would do something or breath deeply they'd look at me or something..

well, I was really in a philosophical, reflective deep state of mind and so I totally concentrated on human dynamics and that sh*t is a really crazy topic to touch, its kinda scary but at the same time you feel like you have something above the rest of the humans around you because you obviously are seeing something that not many see.

Anyways, last I remembered I struck a conversation with a HB7 redhead cutie and I started talking to her about which bars were good in town and then next thing I know its 9 o clock at night and I'm in bed with a piece of paper that says Olivia and a cell phone number and there's also a banana republic sweater on my floor..hopefully she comes back to get it because banana republic is too expensive to just forget one of its items somewhere...
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Originally posted by Dimebag_Darrell
Flicking hair, every time I would do something or breath deeply they'd look at me or something..
The reason they were looking at you was probably because you weren't wearing any pants, and you didn't realize it because you were high.
 

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You should really consider wearing pants next time.
 

KaminoSS

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i dont like stalkers
lol always the new guys who post the flames......
 

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a) less than two months member doesn't give you the right to talk about other members as new members.

b) it's a joke from them, I found it funny :D

They were probably scared of your drunk weeded-out ass man :p
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Hahahaha...not that i condone the use of drugs, but that's AWESOME man!

just don't get yourself too effed up!

-Damian
 
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