"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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What am I MISSING?!

Mr Plow

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Okay, so I have been playing Alpha Male, I got the ****y + Funny thing down pretty well. I can shine my confidence, kino like mad, and yet I have little to NO success.

What's wrong? Why do the girls see me as just being funny/goofy/whatever even though I add the confidence to the mixture and the dominance. It's annoying, plus why are close to all the girls falling for the biggest AFCs going! What the hell?! I think there are one or two who are going with guys like me (whom I wouldn't touch with a bargepole) whilst all the pretty girls are with these wusses who SHOWER them with gifts, compliments, and tell them how special they are and how they are not worthy. Oh my god :l
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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AFC Savior

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u gotta make a girl feel special about herself, thats #1 important thing. You gotta mix in the sweet talk with the ****iness and alphaness, u cant just do one thing
 

ready123

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post a FR of an interaction you had where you got blown out

it could be something simple
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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J-dog

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If she is 15, she would go for the AMOG. Girls are very picky at a young age.
And what does AMOG means???
 

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Alpha Male of the Group. And its not always true. They could have some guy flirting with her and showering her with gifts and in her inexperience she thinks "Oh, what a nice guy" and goes out with him. Of course as they get more experienced they LJBF people like that.
 

ready123

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LostAndConfused said:
Alpha Male of the Group. And its not always true. They could have some guy flirting with her and showering her with gifts and in her inexperience she thinks "Oh, what a nice guy" and goes out with him. Of course as they get more experienced they LJBF people like that.
when did all the acronyms change? AMOG used to mean Alpha Male Other Guy, meaning when some other guy tries to step in your set and take your girl, you ****block him back and take away his value
 
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