"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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What am I MISSING?!

Mr Plow

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Okay, so I have been playing Alpha Male, I got the ****y + Funny thing down pretty well. I can shine my confidence, kino like mad, and yet I have little to NO success.

What's wrong? Why do the girls see me as just being funny/goofy/whatever even though I add the confidence to the mixture and the dominance. It's annoying, plus why are close to all the girls falling for the biggest AFCs going! What the hell?! I think there are one or two who are going with guys like me (whom I wouldn't touch with a bargepole) whilst all the pretty girls are with these wusses who SHOWER them with gifts, compliments, and tell them how special they are and how they are not worthy. Oh my god :l
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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AFC Savior

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u gotta make a girl feel special about herself, thats #1 important thing. You gotta mix in the sweet talk with the ****iness and alphaness, u cant just do one thing
 

ready123

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post a FR of an interaction you had where you got blown out

it could be something simple
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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J-dog

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If she is 15, she would go for the AMOG. Girls are very picky at a young age.
And what does AMOG means???
 

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Alpha Male of the Group. And its not always true. They could have some guy flirting with her and showering her with gifts and in her inexperience she thinks "Oh, what a nice guy" and goes out with him. Of course as they get more experienced they LJBF people like that.
 

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LostAndConfused said:
Alpha Male of the Group. And its not always true. They could have some guy flirting with her and showering her with gifts and in her inexperience she thinks "Oh, what a nice guy" and goes out with him. Of course as they get more experienced they LJBF people like that.
when did all the acronyms change? AMOG used to mean Alpha Male Other Guy, meaning when some other guy tries to step in your set and take your girl, you ****block him back and take away his value
 
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