"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Rock Steady

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Is this super aggressive girl just an AW?

Ok.. so with 20 views and no responses, I'm thinking I need to shorten this up a little bit.

Basically, I met this girl(not at all trying to pick her up) about a year ago while I was in an LTR. I didn't pursue because I was honoring the relationship I was in. We ran into each other often(she tended bar at my bar), and became friends. We were flirty, but I never took it any further.

Fast forward, we ran into each other a handful of times over the past year out of where she worked, and she showed high interest in me(propositioned me for sex, etc..), but I turned her down on account of my status(not being single). My relationship went on the rocks, and we hung out a couple times when my girlfriend and I were in hard times.
She continued coming onto me, despite her having a boyfriend now, still propositioning me for sex on account of her wanting me for so long. She was very physical on a couple occasions, taking me back to her house to her room, where I was forced to leave or suffer certain rape. She would grab me and start aggressively making out with me. I was begged more than once for sex, to which I declined(for the sake of my integrity, to which I am not ashamed or regretful).

Since my girlfriend and I have officially broken up, the girl and I have hung out a few times, and each time she seems increasingly aggressive in public settings(making out with me, rubbing my junk, pulling my hands to her tits, talking dirty, and I mean DIRTY to me), buying me drinks, etc.. but when it comes down to sealing the deal, she'll shy away or give an excuse, mostly pertaining to the boyfriend(the same one she was begging me to have sex with her behind his back).

What are you guys' opinions on this(I'm pretty sure I know what the majority consensus will be)? I know she's not relationship material for MANY reasons, but I'm just wondering if I should ghost. I live in a VERY small town with VERY limited selection, and she's a pretty hot number. Every guy I know wants to bed her, but she doesn't 'get around'(in a small town, you know who does and who doesn't).

Thanks!
 
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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jester1x

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Isolate her and put some moves on her. She's either going to follow through or come up with some excuse. If I got an excuse then I'd eject. But, be friendly and cordial when you see her but nothing more.

Think about it though. Would you like it if she acted the same way towards another guy if you were her boyfriend?

You could eat filet mignon for two weeks straight but then get excited for a ham and cheese sandwich. What I"m saying is anything gets old...even the hottest 10. Is there more to her than just a pretty face?

I wouldn't invest anymore thought or energy necessary to get the lay. Sounds like a major tease but you should try to put your mind at ease.
 

Slickster

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Sounds like she's using you to boost her own ego. ie. make you want her.
 
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