"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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what am i doing wrong????

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Hey guys, i have a bit of confusion on this girl im trying to game

ok heres the info:
im a senior, and she is a junior that just moved to this school. she is quite popular already because of her appearance.

i only see her 1 period a day (its office aid so it is basically like a free period where i can go anywhere) and we usually talk there. she alway shows IOIs like touching me and getting close to me. and i do ****y & funny stuff.... but the problem she is also with this one guy(not sure if they r bfs and gfs) who is a junior and sometimes talks about him. i dont know him personally but the way she talks about him is he is one of those jerks that gets a lot of girls.

i get the feeling that she is just playing me but..... i dont really know.. i was thinking maybe i should just forget about her and appear like i have no interest anymore??? any ideas on what i should do??

P.S. i just read over my post and it seemed like i was some sort of a nice guy but i really dont act like that around her. i always act playful around her and i dont give her ****.... so i dunno what im doing wrong!!! :mad:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Just ask if she's dating him, simple enough. If she says yes, then you know to back off. If she says she's not, then you'll have a chance to make a move.
 
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