"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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what am i doing wrong????

duckbutt

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Hey guys, i have a bit of confusion on this girl im trying to game

ok heres the info:
im a senior, and she is a junior that just moved to this school. she is quite popular already because of her appearance.

i only see her 1 period a day (its office aid so it is basically like a free period where i can go anywhere) and we usually talk there. she alway shows IOIs like touching me and getting close to me. and i do ****y & funny stuff.... but the problem she is also with this one guy(not sure if they r bfs and gfs) who is a junior and sometimes talks about him. i dont know him personally but the way she talks about him is he is one of those jerks that gets a lot of girls.

i get the feeling that she is just playing me but..... i dont really know.. i was thinking maybe i should just forget about her and appear like i have no interest anymore??? any ideas on what i should do??

P.S. i just read over my post and it seemed like i was some sort of a nice guy but i really dont act like that around her. i always act playful around her and i dont give her ****.... so i dunno what im doing wrong!!! :mad:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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GKitt

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Just ask if she's dating him, simple enough. If she says yes, then you know to back off. If she says she's not, then you'll have a chance to make a move.
 
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